How To Make Women Squirt–Can Any Guy Achieve This Ultimate Sexual Goal?
For a lot of men, making a woman squirt can be the pinnacle of their sexual prowess.
However, there is a lot of misinformation going around about how to make women squirt and what causes it.
So today, I want to clear that up.
I’m going to teach you the secret to giving women squirting orgasms… and how to improve your sex life by making her experience absolutely unforgettable. 
I’m Lawrence Lanoff and as a tantric sex expert, it’s safe to say I know a lot about sex and improving your sex life. So every week, I’ll be answering your most difficult, burning questions you have about sex…
And this week, I’m answering this one:
“How do I give women squirting orgasms?”
Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…
Let’s talk about the secret to squirting orgasms.
Squirting orgasms are very incredible, and yes, all women can have them.
However, there are a few drawbacks to focusing too much on making them happen during sex.
For one, if you focus on a squirting orgasm, it’s a little bit like chasing a mirage.
You can keep chasing it and trying to make it happen… and yet you never quite catch it.
I call that chasing orgasms.
So if you’ve made up your mind that you want a squirting orgasm to happen, it can go either way.
It may or may not happen, but regardless, it tends to create a large amount of stress. And that’s counterproductive to squirting orgasms.
If squirting orgasms are on the table at all, it has to be something that you do in a way that’s comfortable for both of you.
You both also have to be OK with it not happening.
And ultimately, you should understand that a squirting orgasm takes time.
The Truth About Squirting Orgasms…
There are some people in porn who are like:
“No, you get the speed down and the hand motion and I’ll make anybody squirt!!!”
And while that may be possible… what most men don’t realize is that a lot of porn you see on-screen requires a lot of off-screen warming up.
There is a lot of pre-framing and psychological preparation involved.
Also, a woman who is on camera for a squirting orgasm is going to be more likely to be super forthcoming about it, because that’s in her job description.
There is also a lot of stuff that’s faked out there. Like where they just fill the vagina with water at the beginning of the shot and then she just shoots it out.
So just understand that a lot of it is simply Hollywood porn glitter.
The key thing is to understand that squirting has to do with a release of her fluid, and it honestly feels a lot like peeing.
She may, in fact, additionally pee while she squirts.
So part of the secret is to just make sure she knows that everything is OK no matter what happens.
Put lots of towels down, because women tend to be really concerned about liquids and fluids.
But at the end of the day, squirting can be really fun and pleasurable. It’s a sense of accomplishment for both partners.
Squirting 101: The Do’s & Don’ts
I love squirting orgasms, but it’s not a thing that I particularly focus on trying to make happen.
I do know that if a woman feels comfortable with it beforehand, I’ll try a certain hand motion.
This is where you use two fingers and you stroke while you increase the pressure and speed. (But more on that in a minute.)
With squirting, it tends to be the case that you’re going to need a little bit more speed–and then there’s a moment just as she’s squirting where you pull out so she can then release (because the fingers can get in the way of the fluid).
So the secret is to create a completely safe space where she can relax about her body and the fluid.
Set out towels and just really reassure her that everything’s OK.
In my experience, all women can squirt, but not all women are psychologically able to be in the position where they allow themselves to do it.
And ultimately, if it doesn’t happen, remember: It’s sex!
Did you have fun?
Did it feel good?
Then we all won.
That is what I want you to think about.
But back to that technique I mentioned above–here’s a more detailed description of how to do it:
My Favorite Technique to Make Any Woman Squirt…
The technique I mentioned above (and in the video) is called the 5-Finger “Tantra Technique.”
When done right, you can make women experience anything from multiple orgasms…
To squirting orgasms…
And even full body orgasms. (Which may make you think she’s having a seizure haha.)
So I know I gave you a quick demonstration of the 5-Finger “Tantra Technique” above… but that was fast.
To truly master the technique, you still need to know:
- How to position your fingers…
- How to tell if you’re stimulating the right spot…
- How much pressure to apply…
- And the rhythm in which you should be moving your hand.
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