Signs That Your Guy Is Way Too Proud Of Himself In The Bedroom

There's nothing wrong with having pride in yourself, but it's possible to take it too far.  This is a major setback among some men, especially when it comes to having sex.  Instead of being sensual, they're selfish.  They focus on themselves, instead of sharing the moment, and it usually fails on account.  If you've ever slept with a guy who is just way too proud, then you absolutely understand how frustrating it is.  They try to be cool, but only end up ruining the moment as a result.  Keep reading to discover signs that your guy is way too proud of himself in the bedroom.comments!

Proud, horny men. While there’s nothing wrong with being proud, men tend to abuse that personal feature when they’re having sex. It’s as though something comes over some of them, and they can’t imagine themselves as anything less than amazing. If you’ve ever experienced this kind of guy, you understand how annoying it is. If you haven’t, you’re about to discover some annoying truths.

He doesn't ask you to compliment his body/abilities — he does it himself. Does he think he’s amazing? Yes. Does he need your approval? Not necessarily. Instead of you even having to compliment him, he does it himself. He reminds you how big his muscles are and how big is penis is, and in doing so, reminds you how big his ego is — in case you needed any reminding.

He’ll go down for hardly a minute and think he's a sex god. Some guys truly understand how to treat a woman in the bedroom. When it comes to oral, this particular guy does not. He thinks he’s doing you a favor by putting his mouth on your vagina for maybe a minute, but really, he’s just showing you how awful he is at oral.

He assumes he’s too big when you moan. Fun fact: moaning is perfectly normal when you’re having sex. Yes, whether you’re a man or woman, it happens. You get so aroused, that you moan. He, however, assumes it’s because his giant penis is hurting your vagina, which turns him on for some reason — probably because he secretly has a small, or at the very least, slightly average, penis.

He refuses to let you take over, even when you’re on top. Sex is a mutual experience, but that’s not how this guy sees it. He thinks that he has to be in control of everything, even when it comes to switching positions. When you’re riding him, he still feels the need to thrust his pelvis. Like, does he not know that this is a great opportunity for him to just lay back and enjoy himself?

He wants you to stare at him while masturbates (and flexes). It’s one thing to be confident, but it’s another thing to be conceited. This is pretty much him in a nutshell. When he’s showing off (we’ll just not even bother covering the fact that he feels the need to show off), he wants you to watch his every move. You know, because he thinks he’s so damn hot.

He tries to take the reins and run the show. He must not realize that women are allowed to take over during sex. Because of this lack of knowledge, he feels the need to run the show. No matter you may know you want, he takes the reins and acts on what he thinks you want. Which isn’t what you want. But… well… pride, ladies and gentlemen.

He never asks how you’re feeling or what you need, because he’s convinced you’re loving everything that he’s giving. Why bother checking in on something when you’re already confident nothing could possibly go wrong? This is his approach to sex, and he’s more than certain that you want whatever he’s giving you. Communication is irrelevant in his eyes.

He’ll act like he’s in the mood, even when he’s clearly not. God forbid he’s just not in the mood. In his eyes, men ought to be ready for everything, especially when it comes to sex. So, even if he secretly doesn’t want to have sex, he’s going to show you that such a feeling is absolutely impossible.

He shows off how frequently he edges himself. Some people think that edging is some new trend. It’s not. Edging is just the act of a guy keeping himself from orgasming. So, when he feels the need to tell you every time he keeps himself from orgasming, he’s really not telling you anything that matters. At all. That’s just the pride talking.

He thinks you actually enjoy being spanked, even though he just introduced it out of the blue. Every couple is into their own sexual kinks. But with super proud guy, he just does whatever he feels might be sexy, whether you’re in the know or not. Like spanking… which really requires a heads up.

He claims that he doesn’t need to wait for another round after he orgasms. Some men can “come and go,” so to speak, but for the most part, guys are wired to need a break after orgasming. That’s just how their bodies work. It’s science. But your guy is so proud of his sexual abilities that he pretends that he doesn’t need the break. He just gets right to it, even though deep down, it’s killing him.

When his only dirty talk is, “Yeah, you like that, baby.” Dirty talk is good. Dirty talk is healthy. However, if his version of dirty talk is just referencing him the whole time, then it’s not dirty talk — it’s just a guy complimenting himself. So, if he does that to you, you’re not being rude if you’re not impressed.

When he makes you orgasm (even if he’s only pulled this off once).When it comes to orgasming during sex, it’s common knowledge that men are easier to get off than women. Guys just struggle sometimes with how they’re going to excite a woman. So, you remember that one time he made you come? He’s still proud of that moment.

“Pride comes before the fall.” Now, men, if you’re reading this, just keep in mind that being proud of yourself is one thing, but being overloaded on pride isn’t helping anyone. Not even you. So, instead, work on your modesty. You may be surprised to find out how many women actually find this more attractive.