How To Tell If Her Orgasms Are Authentic Or Not

Do you ever wonder if your lady is faking her orgasms, or are you confident that your work in bed is the real deal?  Here are some ways to tell if her orgasms are authentic or not.  Please note that while this article focuses on the ladies, men have admitted to faking orgasms as well, so look forward to that in a future article.  So, do you think your lady is faking it?

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Does it seem like she's putting on a show? Let's be honest. Genuine orgasms aren't always sexy in the traditional sense of the word. People in the throes of ecstasy contort their faces into strange shapes, make awkward sounds, and pant loudly like dogs in heat. This is not always cute, reports Complex.com.

Does she seem genuine, or does everything seem rehearsed? If her expressions and sighs seem measured and harmonized, rather than breathless and random, she's probably just rolling out the show she knows you want to see. If the sounds you hear suddenly make you wonder whether you accidentally forgot to close the streaming HD edition of Cocks and Dolls on your laptop, then you might want to question if she's coming from a genuine place, Complex.com continues.

Advice from Brobible. Ladies, if your guy is doing something that you don't like, it's up to you to tell him. Otherwise, how is he supposed to know that you don't like his technique? "Some women want the same sexual liberation as men without doing the work. I mean, don’t get me wrong, men didn’t have to do anything to get that liberation, they were born with it — but if we want shit to change we all gotta start being honest. Be open and expressive about what you want. Don’t be afraid to say, “This position isn’t working,” or “moving at that speed makes me feel like a prosthetic sex toy, not a human,” or even 'this isn’t PornHub, that hole is off limits, pal.'"

Is everything she says and moans monotonous? As Brobible points out, not every woman is vocal in bed. That’s fine, no judgement. You’re not there to present a doctoral dissertation, you’re there to orgasm. However, if she is vocalizing things, be aware of her inflection. I promise that if her voice isn’t wavering whatsoever and she sounds like Charlie Brown’s teacher…she may not really be into it.

Is she completely silent afterwards, to the point of almost giving you the cold shoulder? If you're grinning after you finish the business, and she lies there quietly, lips pursed, you may have a problem. You may think she’s overcome with emotion, trying to play it cool, or tired because you rocked her world so hard. But you're wrong, my friend. She’s just afraid that if she opens her mouth, she’ll end up telling you that your signature jackhammer move gave her cramps and reminded her of an S&M session gone terribly wrong. After all, she’s a lady who knows that if you don’t have anything nice to say, you shouldn't say anything at all. (Note: We recommend she quit being nice and start speaking up) recommends Complex.

How many women will admit to faking an orgasm? According to LAWeekly, ladies, there is some serious bedroom dishonesty going on. But many women fake orgasms in order to end an unsatisfactory sex session, knowing that no amount of instruction will get her to peak at that point. And while I don't condone the act, it's something that around 60 percent of women have done in order to make the sucky sex stop.

Does she have a sex flush? This is a telltale sign of a genuine orgasm, as LAWeekly reports. About 75 percent of women will experience a noticeable red flush to their cheeks, feet and hands as part of the sexual excitement and response cycle. During and following a good ol' orgasm, her blood pressure rises enough for the skin to develop a nice deep hue and inform onlookers of her carnal accomplishment.

Listen to her breathing. Oxygen is key for steady blood flow and as women get closer to the big finish their breathing patterns drastically change. Whereas they may have been inhaling short gasps of air (often a reaction to being railed good and hard) their intake morphs into a deeper, calmer (sometimes) series of breaths.

Is her heart beating quickly? As another part of the sexual excitement and response cycle, our heart rates increases along with our blood pressure as the body works to send a fresh flow of blood to the areas of the body that play a key role in the copulation process. You don't have to get all CSI on her and take her pulse with a stopwatch; just rest your head on her chest and have a quick listen.

The telltale clench. There's all kinds of talk about PC muscles and kegel exercises and they're not just for vaginal rejuvenation and preventing women from peeing a little when they laugh really hard. (Though keeping the muscles strong absolutely does both.)The pubococcygeus muscles line the vaginal walls and are activated when making that clenching sensation. Squeezing these PC muscles during sex add a much appreciated surprise for the men, and the ladies will be happy to learn that the stronger you keep your PC muscles, the harder you'll come, reports LA Weekly.

Did you rush her to the finish line? Don’t pressure your partner into having an orgasm. Nothing kills a boner (in any gender) like being forced to the finish line. If you’re asking her every two seconds "did you come" and she eventually moans a half-assed “yeah baby,” it was likely just to shut you up rather than because she got off.

Was there foreplay? Unless you haven’t seen each other in a month and are so wrought with sexual tension that you could make electricity if you put forks in your butts, your vagina-owning sexy partner likely needs foreplay to have an orgasm. So make out! Eat her out! Do that thing that you surreptitiously read about in Cosmo while you were in line at the pharmacy! Think of P in V sex as part of sex, rather than all that is sex, according to GQ.

Faking his orgasm is the same as pretending to like his band, according to the Daily Beast. Faking an orgasm is the same as pretending to like his band. Erin Bradley, The Daily Beast“At the heart of it is non-confrontation, and it’s what keeps the wheels of human interaction spinning round and round. Sex, for all its attachments and associations, is just another exchange between two people. Just as sometimes you’ll tell off someone who cuts in line in front of you, other times you won’t. Likewise, sometimes we’ll open up and ask for exactly what we want in bed; other times we’ll smile, play along, and let it go. Why make sex into this sacred cow?”

Is she awkwardly smiling at you? When you finish and grin at her expectantly, rather than congratulating you on a job well done, she stares back for a second, seemingly confused by your excitement. In fact, she looks as though she doesn’t understand why you’re so pleased with herself.She may force a smile as she remembers her stellar performance from minutes before, but it's only to maintain your delusions of grandeur, as Complex.com reports.

And finally... Last, but certainly not least, is the steady flow of vaginal secretions and -- for lack of a better word -- goop that comes out as she comes all over the place. As women get turned on, their vaginas become slippery and wet, the perfect invitation for fornication, as LA Weekly reports.