Men Reveal Sex Tips They Wish Every Woman Knew

Fellas, what's a sex tip you wish every woman knew? Think long and hard —  no pun intended. Got one? Whether it's that you wish ladies would be more interactive between the sheets or communicative, every guy has at least one piece of advice they'd like to offer to prospective lovers when it comes to what goes down in the bedroom. Seemingly, we here at Rebel Circus got curious and decided to turn to Reddit to see what some of the male users on the forum had to say on the matter. Curious?  Of course you are. Take a look below as men reveal 15 sex tips they wish every woman knew. Spoiler: Get ready for some BJ pointers!

Be confident. User “Head_Master” wrote: "Don't be self conscious about your body. Sure you might think you have imperfections but the guy is usually too busy thinking 'OMG a naked lady!' If you are worrying too much about yourself you aren't going to be relaxed enough, thus making it harder for you to orgasm.” He added: "Kiss me. Lots. Sure men have the whole male bravado thing going on, but we like to be kissed as much as you.”

Be present. "This may seem obvious, but it's a more prevalent problem than you would think,” user “JayTS” shared. "I call it ‘rag-doll syndrome’ where the girl just lays there like a ragdoll, doesn't move at all, doesn't make much noise... I feel like I'm sleeping with a very realistic sex doll. Act excited, move around, let us know what you like... we want you to enjoy it as much as we do, so get into it!”

Take initiative. "Her initiating is damned near the sexiest thing she can do,” user “simianfarmer” wrote. Another added: "Conversely, making me initiate every time is going to get boring for me. I will almost never turn down sex, but I only initiate it when it's what I want. If you're in the mood, start something up... I'll be on board pretty quick.”

Be open. A user who has since deleted his account wrote: "It would be great, that if true for her, a woman could reassure her partner that it's okay to talk frankly about their desires, that she won't judge her partner or think less of them because of their interests, and that while she may not be ready to fulfill their every fantasy, that their satisfaction is important to her.

Too often, both on reddit and in real life, I see people creating unnecessary tension in their relationships because they are ashamed of their desires. This need not be the case. It's okay to like facials. It's okay to want a submissive partner or to be submissive yourself. It's okay to like things inserted into your rectum. It's not okay to feel unfulfilled because you are too afraid to talk about your turn-ons."

Use more tongue. User “Article48” advised: "A (good) BJ is more than just bobbing your head up and down. You need to actually SUCK. And use tongue. A lot of tongue.”

Emotions are important. User “TheBananaKing” wrote: "The emotional aspect of sex is just as important for us as it is for you. We may have different specific approaches and needs, but the principle is the same. If the emotional side isn't fulfilled, it's not much fun.

Most of all, we tend to crave acceptance. Being actively wanted and liked and desired, not just tolerated. Yeah, some are into the whole conquest/domination angle, but think about it for a second: at the core of that lies the message that we are something to be avoided, resisted, escaped from, like we're Pepe La Pew. That we're fundamentally unpleasant, as though we are at best a guilty pleasure, but more often a chore, like playing with your little brother when you wanted to watch TV instead, and you need to be persuaded, almost coerced into it. It can get to be a pretty hollow victory after a while.

If you want to make us happy, keep that in mind.”

Communicate your dislikes. "It is okay to tell us what you don't like,” user “DoFDcostheta” revealed. "After the fact, it's best to clear the air about things that make you uncomfortable/things you don't like. But try and BALANCE that with suggesting alternatives. It's sexy when you take something we want that makes you uncomfortable, add your input, and turn it into something new and hot and satisfying for us both."

Be adventurous. User “maleswitch” shared: “If we do something that seems out of the ordinary to you, try it on us later. Sometimes we act out what we want done to us on you. Especially if it's something that would show we are submissive. We get embarrassed too.

Personally, this is how I found out I love having a hand on my throat when my lady is on top."

Be attentive. User “notthe9oclock” said: "Touch, taste, sound, sight, smell. It all matters. Body-language. Some stuff you do because it feels directly physically better -- positions him/her in the right spot to increase your pleasure. Other stuff you do because it's another way of saying something important. Like what? Maybe it's about need. Maybe it's about control. Maybe it's about surrender. Maybe it's about vulnerability. Maybe it's about safety. Maybe something else entirely. But good sex is about more than just body parts and friction.”

Foreplay is key. "Some of us men love foreplay and want to play,” user “Warpedme” wrote. "You ladies are just as guilty as some of us men in just jumping to the sex. We like it when you tease and play.” He added: "Random gropings make me feel sexy: Grab our a** at the supermarket. Kiss my neck for no reason whatsoever. Sneak up behind me, wrap your arms around me and slide one hand down my pants, while I'm cooking dinner.”

Make requests.One user said: "Please feel free to make requests. Not only does it let me know what you like but I get the pleasure of fulfilling your request. Quite a few of us men get off on giving our women pleasure. These requests don't even have to be at sexy time, I cooked dinner in just boxer briefs last night at my woman's request. She couldn't keep her hands off me all night, it was HOT! and I felt incredibly sexy (which led to me taking my time, teasing and seducing the hell out of her).”

Be there. "The sexiest thing you can possibly do is show me that you want to be here,” user “stupidlyugly” shared. "I would seriously just rather not have sex than engage in it with someone who doesn't want it.”

He added: "Got a little flab on the belly? Think your tits are too small/too big/too saggy? If I gave a f*ck, I wouldn't be here. I like your belly/a**/tits/hips/face/etc. because they're attached to you, and you're what I'm having sex with."

Be interactive. One man wrote: "Do something, anything with your arms and legs. I hate humping a chick and she's just kind of a f*ck doll. I want an interactive sex partner who is rubbing my chest, playing with my nipples, squeezing my butt and has her legs wrapped around me or spread wide so I can see everything.” Another weighed in, writing: “Ugh nothing worse. Although I've always more thought of it like f*cking a wet log. Not entirely sure but at least better than the other thought I had on the matter.”

Don’t ignore the balls. "Treat balls like eyeballs,” one user explained. "Rubbing them, just like rubbing your eyes, can feel really nice, but it's not precisely sexual stimulation per se. And just like eyeballs, while overall squeezing pressure (up to a point) can be nice, poking, tapping or fingertip pressure is RIGHT OUT.”

Own your orgasm. User “mcreeves” said: "Don't blame the dude 100% if you don't get off. Seriously, that's horse sh*t. Relationships, including sex, are two way streets. If you can't get off, look at the whole situation, not just what the guy may have done wrong. Don't just lay there like a f*cking board and expect to come like the dickens. Remember, you get out of it what you put into it."