Wednesday, August 21, 2019

This Sex Position Is Your Best Bet for (Finally!) Having a G-Spot Orgasm

imageBusiness first: Despite reports over the years that have suggested the G-spot is a sexual Narnia—a mythical pleasure zone created to frustrate us all when we can't actually find it—we can confirm that this treasure chest truly exists.
“The G-spot is real, but it’s not actually a spot or button you can push,” says sex expert Jessica O’Reilly, Ph.D. "It’s a region of nerves and tissues along the upper wall of the vagina, a few centimeters to a few inches past your vaginal opening." For the record, around 30 percent of women claim they can climax from stimulation of the G-spot. But if penetration alone doesn't seem to give you the tingles, it can help to explore the area yourself first to help you find your G-spot: Put a small amount of lube on one or two fingers, and insert them into your vagina, palm facing up. Feel along the upper wall of the vagina (nearest the belly) for a rippled or textured surface that says “helloooooo!” when you stroke it.
Now for the fun stuff—hitting the G-spot during sex. “The most effective position for a lot of women is girl on top,” says O’Reilly. The reason: Tilting your body back slightly while straddling him allows the pressure of his penis to push right up against your vaginal wall—that hotbed for stimulation. It can help to put your hands on his thighs for support and then rock your hips to play around with depth, angle, and speed of penetration. Most guys can last longer in girl on top, too, (the back-and-forth penetration isn’t as stimulating for him as plunging in and out), which ups your odds for vaginal orgasm. Plus, he’s got easy access to your clitoris if you want to double the fun, says O’Reilly.
Feel along the upper wall of the vagina (nearest the belly) for a rippled or textured surface that says “helloooooo!” when you stroke it.
Not working? Make doggy style your next move. Kneel on all fours on the bed with your back slightly arched. (It may help to drop to your elbows since having your goods slightly higher than his penis can put him in better position to stroke the vaginal wall.)
All said and done, finding this pleasure zone isn’t easy, so if you get bored or frustrated, there’s no shame in throwing in the towel. “What’s interesting is that while the G-spot is real, not everybody loves it stroked, similar to how some of us like our feet touched and others don’t.”

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