Man cave. Men are an interesting breed. As brave as they're often portrayed, men can be quite timid when it comes to, let's say, “putting themselves out there.” They can seem as confident as confident comes, but introduce them to an idea that involves something that falls out of line with overt masculinity, and you'll find them shaking in their boots.
Opening up to new experiences. To get right to the point, when it comes to experimenting with other guys, straight men would rather snack on their own bone marrow before ever even considering going down on a guy. The only penis that isn't their own that they'd ever want to see is the obligatory penis in the man-on-woman adult films they're watching. But therein lies the problem: they refuse to even give it a shot.
The benefits. Even though they'd likely never admit it to themselves, experimenting with some gay sex could actually do them some good. This applies to anyone who's exerting constant unyielding stubbornness, but for these men in particular, testing out new waters could potentially be exactly what they needed in order to make life a bit more interesting again.
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Body positivity. Yes, some men have issues with their weight. Even the one who seem like they've got it all going on in all the right places. This is why some experimental gay sex can actually do wonders. Being intimate with another man can offer him a new perspective on himself, and on the male figure in general. He may realize that he's more put together than he might've ever thought before.
Openness. There's nothing worse than going through your life behind closed doors. It's quite restricting. So by testing out the man-on-man waters for a change of scenery, he might be very surprised to discover that there's more to him (and to the rest of the world) than he ever gave himself (or the rest of the world) credit for.
Bonding. Though most macho men will confidently tell you that there's male bonding and there's gay sex and that they're two completely separate entities, they'd be wrong. Technically, yes, they're not the same things, but they are one in the same. If a straight man was willing to put insecurities behind him and embrace the fact that he's simply a human, then this kind of bonding would represent a type of intimacy he may have otherwise been missing.
Self-exploration. Before you die, you've got to know who you are. It's an unspoken rule of the universe. When you're straight and experimenting with another man sexually, it's a different experience than it would have been if you were with a girl instead. There are more opportunities to truly explore your body and learn all the secrets it's been dying to let out.
Natural curiosity. There's nothing wrong with being curious. Sure, you may have grown up around people who may have shamed you for thinking too far outside of the box, but that shouldn't affect any decisions you ever make ever. So, explore. Who cares if it's with a guy? You're still straight. It's not going to change you.
Perspective. Sex is probably the most intimate experience you can have with someone, so you can expect to gain some insight not only on this person, but on yourself. With all the busyness of the world consuming our lives on a daily basis, perspective is priceless
Taste of their own medicine. OK, so this can be taken a lot more literally than was intended, but the main point is, no matter what situation you’re referring to you, sexual or not, getting a taste of your own medicine can be incredibly beneficial. Not just for you, but for the people around you. It can keep you grounded. In fact, it can even bring you closer to women, to help you respect them more.
Embracing masculinity. Masculinity is tender as hell. But it doesn’t have to be. If men were able to get over that hump of insecurity, they might discover that fooling around with another guy isn’t going to change them — not for the worse, at least. A man with another man. What can be more masculine than that?
Screw the social norms. Society has pretty much been telling you what to do since the day you were born. By now, you’ve been manipulated in so many ways that the real you is probably hiding under so many layers of what you assume you ought to be, that all of your genuine wants don’t even have room to breathe. Gay experimentation may scare the hell out of you, but live a little.
Knowing better. Obvious fact: guys have penises. That means that when you get head from another guy, you’re going to discover the fascination that is having someone blow you who knows exactly where all of your most sensitive areas are. He’ll know how hard to grab you, how sensitive your balls really are and that dry hand jobs ought to be struck down to Hell.
Life is short. If you spend the rest of your life saying no to experiences because you’re afraid of what the world might think of you or because of how you might think of yourself, then you’re going to leave this world one day surrounded by a cloud of disappointment. Life can be truly fulfilling, but in order for it to be, you’ve got to quite saying “No” just because you’re afraid.
Stick it to the man. If you’ve ever seen the movie or read the book “Trainspotting,” the character Renton (played by Ewan McGregor) goes off on a narrating rant about life — and about how people are embracing all of the wrong parts of it. He talks about how people are being suckered into doing all the wrong things just because “the man” has conditioned them to. So, rebel. Stick it to the man. Literally.
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