A writer shared her experience of attending “an upscale NYC sex party” on thoughtcatalog.com. Rachel R. White said that her fantasies about the event came from a place of naivete, and apart from not hooking up or having the threesome she desired, she even left depressed.
Writer attends an upscale NYC sex party. Rachel R. White shared her experience of going to “an upscale NYC sex party” on thoughtcatalog.com. She said that the whole thing began quite naively, the way “these sorts of fantasies” do and ended up with her feeling depressed. White explained that she was inspired to attend the event after clicking on a “New York Post gossip piece” about the upcoming sex party. It was thrown by a “female friend of Kate Middleton,” she wrote.
Party was organized by a friend of Kate Middleton. According to White, the Post had provided photos of the princess hanging out with the “sex party entrepreneur” in London. It also said the event was the “newest and swankiest of New York orgies,” describing it as an “'Eyes White Shut' inspired sex masquerade.” Although not suggesting that Kate herself ever attended, the Post said that the princess was aware of the parties and curious about how they turned out. White was also curious and managed to convince promoters to give her a press pass to attend.
Writer wondered if the party would have “masked politicians.” White said that her imagination ran wild once her attendance was confirmed. She says she wondered whether there would be “masked politicians” or “a flock of models …fingers outstretched beckoning [her] to join” in on the activities! The writer said that she allowed herself to daydream for hours before having the thought that she should probably invite her boyfriend of six months. She said that after all, they had only recently become exclusive and she had suggested it.
Writer was new to monogamy. She admitted, however, to only being new to monogamy. She said that she had only recently left an open marriage.
She asked her boyfriend if he wanted to come. White did, however, think that she would be jealous if her boyfriend went to a sex party on his own. When she asked him whether he wanted to accompany her, he was less than enthusiastic - “Do we have to?” he asked.
Her boyfriend wasn’t enthusiastic. He pretended to cave in after she did not press the matter, with White telling him to simply decide so she could let the promoters know that she needed an extra free pass. He said he would go but only for the food.
There were strict party guidelines. White said that the sex party had “strict party guidelines.” “No phones” were allowed and “masks” were mandatory.
Man could only attend with a date. Men were not allowed into the event without a date, said White. They were also not allowed to approach women or even really speak unless spoken to. White said “only the “kittens”” could “break the rules.”
Writer fantasized about the possibility of a threesome. White teased her boyfriend that she had no desire to sleep with anyone else but that she felt “bad putting limits” on him. She suggested that they might be able to have a threesome, something she said she had been fantasizing about. Describing the fantasy, her boyfriend teased back, “Is that how it is going to happen!”
Ticket was priced at $250. Lined up in front of the entrance, White’s boyfriend commented that the atmosphere felt like that of a “bar mitzvah.” “Eyes Wide Shut it was not,” said White. In line with a fellow journalist, the pair mused that at least they had not paid the $250 ticket price, especially as they discovered that there “wasn’t a very diverse pool of dick to choose from.” White explained that all the men looked like the kind who on Tinder would list their “alma mater, business accomplishments and passion for Soul Cycle.”
Party was nothing like the Post promised. “The Post had promised leggy models and female British investment bankers in La Perla lingerie,” she wrote, but it turned out to be a “type-A parade of expensive footwear and bad taste.” Meeting yet another journalist, White spotted a “woman receiving oral sex on [a] pool table.” She says that the woman lay “motionless, silent as a stone.” It was “like sex without sex,” she wrote.
A woman scorned. White got invited to sit with a group of married couples from New Jersey and was interrogated by the wives. Once she told them that she had been in an open marriage for 7 years, in which she broke the rules and fell in love with another man and left, the women decided that she was dangerous and turned away from her. One even said, “Stay away from my husband!”
”Like sex without the sex.” The sex party consists of couples having sex in the middle of a crowded orgy room, explained White. They pumped “mechanically,” she wrote, to a “selection of '90s Eurodance.” She said that she watched a “petite woman” have intercourse “in time to the beat” and imagined that the woman was taking part in a competition that she would win.
“It looked like a lot of bad sex.” White and a fellow journalist agree that the sex party “looked like a lot of bad sex.” One of the other attendees pointed out that the problem might have been that “no one [was] swapping.” Watching others have sex and even a man in his mid-50s get a “lubeless hand job,” White’s boyfriend declared he might “never have sex again.”
“Sex parties come down to the people involved.” The couple never got to play at the sex party at all in the end, and White concludes that the “problem, in sex parties, in all of hooking-up and dating, always comes down to the people involved.” “How, in a city of eight million,” she mused as her boyfriend drifted off to sleep, “was it so hard to find someone you could stand being around?”
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