Facepalm. We do some wild things in the name of love. But what about the things we do in the name of sex? There’s no shame in experimenting in the bedroom (in fact, more power to you if you do), but you should keep in mind that there’s definitely such a thing as overstepping boundaries.
Don’t think, know. “If you think you’re pretty sure you know what something is, don’t bother convincing yourself. Either know or don’t. Because when you don’t know something and think you do, you end up in the same kind of sh*tty situation I found myself in. And I mean literally sh*tty.” —Debby, 28
Scat attack. “I was dating this guy for maybe 3 months, and he told he wanted to try something out. He said he wanted to try scat. So I was like, ‘Sure, let’s do it,’ thinking I had a good idea I knew what scat was. Anyway, long story short — he literally sh*t the bed. And I walked out, scarred for life, and I haven’t talked to him since.” —Debby, 28
Drugs. “I think experimenting with anything is great and super healthy. I was never big into drugs, but when I was in college I was dating a guy who wanted to try stuff out before we graduated. At that point, we were together for over a year, and it was honestly going really strong. But then came the drugs, and we broke up for a reason that probably isn’t the most obvious.” —Allie, 25
Acidic effects. “So we wanted to try acid, and we did. Instead of it making sex amazing, which we thought it might, all it did was make us rethink our entire relationship. We had this deep conversation, and by the end of the night, we were over. Thanks acid.” —Allie, 25
Surprise threesome! “Probably stupidest thing I ever did was try to make a threesome happen with my girlfriend without telling her first. We talked about it before, but it never really went anywhere. There was like an interest, but that’s it. But then one night I showed up with this girl, and my now ex looked like she wanted to kill me. We broke up right there. In front of our guest.” —Mark, 27
New heights. “First of all, never thought having sex on a sex swing would be dangerous. But leave it to my ex to completely f*ck it up. It all started when he hung the swing too high. He tried putting me into this position that didn't give me much balance, and it ended with the swing breaking and then me breaking my nose. If you knew my ex, then you would agree that breaking up with him over this was the best move possible.” —Jen, 29
Trying something new. “You can call me a d*ck for doing this, but if you were there, you’d be on my side. My girlfriend wanted to peg me, and it took me a while before I was down, but I was finally like whatever. Why not give it a shot? Well. Turns out my girlfriend didn’t want to just peg me, she wanted to pretty much take me over. She wanted to destroy my body.” —Bill, 26
Pain in the a**. “When we ended up doing it, I could kind of get behind it at first. She was gentle. We started really slow. But then, once I guess I got kind of loose enough for her to go harder, she ended up going out of her mind. Even though I told her to stop, she took it like I was just wanting it rough or something, and she ended up going so deep that I looked down and there was blood all over the bed.” —Bill, 26
Ending it once and for all. “She basically ripped me up inside and it took her a second before she stopped after that. I remember blood, the pain, her looking like it kind of turned her on… I just couldn’t make it work after that. It was too much and I had to walk out.” —Bill, 26
BFF. “Not sure if this is going to be as intense as other people’s, but mine I feel like was still like an ‘experiment,’ so I think it counts. My ex and I shared the same best friend. We both met through her. We ended up having a threesome one drunk night, and it changed everything. Just couldn’t make it work after that for whatever reason. Something was just off after that.” —Maya, 24
Getting into character. “When your boyfriend asks if you want to roleplay, I’m not saying you should say no, but you should ask what kind of roleplaying he means. Because I wish I did. I thought I wanted my boyfriend to be more open with me, but once I found out what he was into and how into it he was, I just couldn’t anymore.” —Carrie, 25
Getting out of character. “He bought my own ‘furry’ costume and he wanted me to dress up as a dog while he f*cked me. Also as a dog. I get that people are into this, but I’m not. Also, just with how into he was and how much he wanted it a part of our sex lives, there was just no way I could make it work.” —Carrie, 25
The sex party. “I thought a sex party would be exciting for my girlfriend and I. We’d been dating for a while, and we wanted to try new things in our relationship. One thing I didn’t take into account was how jealous she would get it if we ever went to one. Because we did end up going, and jealousy f*cking destroyed us.” —Alex, 24
The after party. “The night itself was awkward. We whisper fought the whole time, even though she told me I could do all the things I did. And after that, it was like a slow burn. We would just fight about that night and she stopped trusting me completely. And then it just finally wasn’t working and we had to break up.” —Alex, 24
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